Hey all, and specially Mahila Nani ! well, it is true that people do expect a lot more back in Nepal. as MAHILA NANI says his own experiences seen himself expectations of a father from his son. well, it is true that one should explain to his parents the real situations . It is true who will understand if not parents! But the environment, the trend,n the circumstances in Nepal and the people are so exploited that it is hard to convince. We are also responsible for these sort of expectations araises. I remember one story that i read somewhere .... A clerk came to office late. The boss asked him why he was late. He replied his boss that he was late becaue he had only one set of office clothes, the clothes couldn't dry up on time so that made him come office late. The Boss seemed convinced and felt sympathy too. He ordered new pair of dresses to the Clerk. The clerk was happy and thanked to his boss. Next day, he asked his boss, 'you know I DO NOT HAVE CUPBORD TO KEEP THESE CLOTHES' . The boss provided him cupborad too. Later he asked, in fact, he did not have a room to keep the cupboard as well. The boss Provided him a room too, later the Clerk asked him he needed suitable bed for the room, some kitchen items, even TV and so so .. .. The boss was kind enough and provided too ..... Later he asked the boss ,' Boss, I do have my children, and the single room is so much conjusted to live 4 people.' He demanded more rooms ..a small hosue would be better . The boss was so fed up that he asked the clerk to return the pair of dress he gave him earlier ! Guys, think yourself whether you are making yourself causes of over expectations of your parents ! but here i do not mean do not help at all ! it is the example of how expectations increases ! cheers