KG4MVP Again, the reason I ignored your first paragraph is because, even KG4MPV knows that :-). Kidding ;-) I meant every one knows that..you tell them you have other obligations..first thing they are gonna think..."YOU ARE LYING". How can't you afford because you are in U.S. Of A? I am not asking what you'd do. I am asking if you are already in similar situation and if so how you are handling that . Re-read my thread's title: It is ...HOW DO YOU HANDLE? It is not HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE? Got it? Revival