What people seem to do in Nepal is look at what’s happening to others, which may be a pure speculation, and expect the same to happen to them. They are more worried about what others say or do than what they really feel like doing. This is a dangerous path to tread on in life. It will only lead to unhappiness as you do not enjoy what you have and always seek to outdo someone else; and we know there will always be some one better than you in something and you cannot grab your hand on everything that is the best.