LOL nails. Hahahaa fuchi hasaucha. Yes yes I am freshman. ;) ------------------------------------------------ Be yourself, be honest, be confident, do not change for others, don't act, do not pretend (kind of same), have self respect yada yada yada. ---------------------> It takes TWO to tango<-------------------- I have not practiced it - nevertheless. . . My humble opinion in approaching a girl is akin to taking a business deal. It depends how important the client is, whether or not you want this client for the long inning or is it another stair for better clients, akin to building credit history. How far are you willing to bend - either ways? Say like, if you are targeting retiring folks, you present the business planning to suit their needs, or what appeals to them. Furthermore these retiring folks could be sub-categorized, and hence the proposal varies, i.e., Small business employer plans, IRAS, 401(k) Workplace retirement plans so on and so forth. (Here retiring folks could be a metaphor for ripe ladies considering jumping off the wagon - what the society would call - "biha garne umerpugeka hru") :) There are some who prefers candies, and some who fall for continentals, some prefer Chinese, some would fall for Indian and some will swear by our very own Nepalese dal bhat tarkari. You got to change yourself to suit their needs which in turn shall satisfy our needs. ^This are for those classics for keeps ladies:p (Or whatever suits your need.) The gist here is, you approach anyone for what its worth and what do you want from that relationship. I am using the term relationship rather loosely here. Don't break the rules, but one can always bend em'. It works both ways. Remember one golden rule --> Different strokes for different folks. Be happy! IndisGuise:) P.S: This is not an opinion of the writer but rather reflects his excessive boredom in oblivion. If at times he contradicts, confuses or merely does not make any sense -> SHOVE IT. hehe :p ;)