.lfc123, i don't think this is an immature conversation. anyone can come across this phase of life at any time in their life. i experienced it when i was 17, and then when i was 19, then 21, then 23, then 25, then 27. now, finally i have realized that because of those ups and downs and turmoil of giving heart to girls whom i believed in and had faith in, were just a mere temporary happiness. and those short happiness brings greater pain. now single and having a great time, want to stay single for some time more. i want to finish what i started, and take care of all business before i am going to explore again. but a warning to boys and girls out there... do not jump into a relationship with one who does not respect their previous relationship and decide to forget about it. if you are dating someone and he/she tells you that he/she cannot forget his/her past relationship, don't give your heart to it. just enjoy the moment for sometime.. (by sometime, i mean at least a year or two). then you might just discover what is really there for you and your significant.