response to nails questions : 1. Sajha chat was here why did you and your friends go start another chat room?? - First of all I didn't not start the chat room. And i am not responsible for sajha chat room either. You can ask that question to someone else. Again, its a democracy dear, every one has right to do what they want to do. Be it a chatter like me or any one. They have right to make their choice and right to go where they want to go. Might be the guys who started it felt a need for the other chat room or the people in other chat room were not satisfied with the service provided my sajha chat room. That is their choice, no one can say any thing about it. 2. You were always welcome in sajha and so is everyonelse what do you have against it?? -There is no one against no one. We are all one community and one group. We share common festivals and celibrate it together. There is always a feeling of community between nepalese all around the world, not only in USA. That also includes the people from Nepal. If you think any one is against others, that is completely wrong. Again this is not my part, but i am answering it to satisfy your queries. You have to stop thinking that any website is against others. This is no competition, it is only serving different people with different needs. I love this site, that's y I am complaining. You complain to someone you love, not someone u don't like to talk to. So, its a complain...... 3. If someone doesn't go about deleting the bad threads then how will this site be maintained?? - About this, if I remember correct, you yourself appriciated the person who brought that thread, save sajha chat, didn't you. So, did you now mean, you hated the topic you appriciated. That is kind of confusing. If you did not understand what I was saying, it would be great if you can go back and read what i wrote. The whole topic was because that particular thread SAVE SAJHAT CHAT was deleted. I have not touched any other thread or topic and its not my concern either. If you still believe the thread you posted in and admired was a bad thread I don't have anything to say. I would really have appriciated if that nude thread was deleted the same day, coz that was a bad thread. That was around for couple days at least and SAVE SAJHA CHAT was deleted the same day. That is my concern. 4. This never took place before so now are you trying to take the advantage of neo being away? - No Comment: I didn't do it, i don't know about it and neither is my concern. You should have read the whole thread. 5. If you want peace then why don't you and your friends close the other website that you created for no reason and come to sajha?? -No Comment: I am only a chatter. I write sometimes for fun, am not a good writer but still try to write. I go where ever i get to meet my friends I don't want them splitted in two or three different places but its their choice. I'd be more than happy to see them all in one place if not.............. i'll find them. Its their decision I don't have any comment. 6. Did you think that hacking the chat room will make everyone go to your chat room and that's why you did it?? -No Comment: As I told you before, i am merely a chatter and am limited up to that. I write and post sometimes and post in different websites serving different readers for example : http://staticnepal.com/index.php?option=com_simpleboard&Itemid=41&func=view&id=336&catid=21 You would find me in different other websites too, and no one should complain about that, i feel. Neither you nor them. 7. Dicatorship, hmm.. okay but isn't there always someone who has to decide what is bad and what is good for a website??? -Yes, you are right nails, there always should be someone to decide on what is good and what is bad for a website, no doubt on that. But that is true when it a personal website or homepage rather than a website serving nepalese community as a whole. When you serving a community as a whole, you have more oblication and responsibility as an organization, website and person as well. All of us are here away from home, the purpose of the website should be to try to fill that gap rather than a person makin a decision. In that case as a person we user also have a choice to decide on which website and chat to go to and not go to as well. As you said, you are a sajha freak, no one has asked you for a reason and neither one has asked you to leave sajha. Its your personal choice and you are free to decide on what you want and similarly they are as well. You cannot ask them to close their website and join sajha either. You are free to make your decision and the people running other chat or even websites are free to exercise their choice as well. No one can force anyone. It is all users decision. This includes both question 7 and 8. 9. What if some people just don't want to chat anywhere except sajha you know like sajha addicted then what is your plan for changing these people's minds cause i'd be sure you have one since you already hacked the chat room?? don't you ?? if you do what is it?? -Well, no one can change your mind, as I told you above its all your choice and my choice or other users choice. We as a user are always free do go where we want to go. 10. Harkedai you must care a lot about this don't you because you haven't posted any comments in sajha until now?? why is that?? huh?? - I still post sometimes. I miss the sajaities, and the good time I've had here. I miss talking to the users i used to. But again, i don't like being dictated to do something or not to do something. I was busy with my school as well, thats a different story again. I am really mad because of the post deleted yesterday and you were one of the users to reply that post. And you should have felt that too. I hope that answers your questions. peace harkeDai :-)