Terminator, It's pretty sad to hear that even after being in the US, you still have the mentality of typical Nepali. What a waste that you have not learnt anything being here when you say things like "Bahuni is preferred". What does that all reflect? Is that worth with all the education that we still rooted with the old age beliefs. See, you cannot find a wife cause you have that that Nepali racism built in you, otherwise you can find a girl as soon as you step into this country.That's the proof; you have to come online to post it. So open up your mind and heart, you don't have to face being ridiculed. My 5 paisa ko suggestion.