Kumale, don't worry man.. there are good women and there are bad women... drop the bad ones like plague man... Yes thugged out bro is right.. you need to be controlling when it comes to women.. maybe " controlling" is not the rightword.. but be man - man.. don't do everything she says, don't be there whevever she wants you to,don't be always availabe.. dont giveher everything she wants.... yes girls love controlling ,manly men - man,i think it has to do with the cave days.. since then they want stronger - controlling men... they want protection: money, fame , social status now a days,back then hunted animals flesh and food.... hundereds of years have passed since the cave days but the mentality is carried in their gene... they want someone to show them who da man is , they can respect a nice guy but can't be attracted.. that is why bad boys score, nice guys stand and watch.. and mastrubrate... ok bro? so be a man.. but don't be stupid and beat her.... she willput you in jail and send you a homemade video.. don't let her win bro....