indisguize, yup body sans soul aint good. it's all about sharing the love... well, we've successfully hijacked neo_nepal's thread, so i guess its time to give it back to him. dump the broad neo_nepal. she's not after you, she's after money and fame....if she can exert this pressure on you before marriage and make you feel miserable, i can say that that you life will be like living inside a pressure cooker after marriage...i am just guessing; the married folks prolly know better...anyway, good luck...