Bhumika here made an excellent point at the end. May be she was merely suggesting to those people who still are in Nepal or elsewhere, that think before you come to USA. And I really think, that is the one thing she did not do. Over many years of my stay here in USA, I have seen classic cases like this, day in and day out. People have jumped on and came here in United States without doing any homeworks, and hence face the problems what Bhumika and other thousands of people had faced. I think it will be wrong to say USA does not have any opportunity or it is a bad place, just because you did not have any luck here. Just like everything else, success takes tremendous amount of hard work. And hard work is not the only key, you need to be a smart and disciplined. Patience is the key here. I am not saying that waiting for long will eventually brings you a good life, but mostly good thing always come to those who wait. It has just been two years for Bhumika and she already is frustrated. I bet you Bhumika, it will take more than mere two years for one to become successful or financially healthier. Dont forget that you have to start from a scratch here in this country, so in terms of USA, you are just two years old kid, it is time for you to crawl now and soon you will be able to walk and eventually run, but for that you need to wait, learn, discipline yourself and then see how it goes. if you still have a bad life then I will promise you i will give you my full attention and listen to your problem, until then, stop complaining and try to focus towards your life and may be plan a little bit better. And this goes to thousands of Bumikas, who think that life here in United States is very easy and they can make money left, right and center. Yes they can, but it is not that easy, you just have to WORK on it. For some reason if you do not agree on that, than I personally think you should go back to Nepal. Remember USA did not promise you that you will have a good life here, it was your assumption and you took risk for it. If your endeavor fails, you can always quit and go back to Mangalman. My two Cents.