To be honest with you, you're lucky. To actually wach your parents go through all that is even worse. I have a very easy life here. But my parents are the ones paying for it. My dad has bachelors in Literature, Math and Law (from Nepal) and two masters degrees, was always the first ranking officer in government civil service exams for promotions, and here, he works countless hours as a labour. My mum isnt much educated but still even she has to toil labouriously. If you don;t like it in the US Bhumika return to Nepal cuz one thing's for sure, my kids arent growing up here. This place is to work your bones off, not "live".