barhamasay,i wonder who that girl is who dumped her bf diagnosed with cancer.that indeed suggests an unhuman act.same goes 2 the girl who left one with migraine. i think,looks and behavior does play a part in atttraction but when that attraction finally develops into love,you finally accept each other for who they are. my bf is seven seas far and no matter how changed he might have been in these four yrs we've been separated,i'm gonna love him till the end of time.whether he loses his looks in an accident (god forbid),he's gonna b the same old guy i love. love u and miss u a lott dear B.