Okay, here is the deal... One is a life saver; another is 'welcomgin disaster'. you are wise enough to figure out which one is what. GIVEN A CHOICE, it should be a no-brainer that not only finishing your education but also being reasonably secure (inancially)should be the priority. Why do you want to kill yourself before you have to? We all are destined to meet that unfortunate fate some day, at least try to do it in dignified way. Be able to provide or share for your wife's "small" wants and wants (note: needs are secondary). ;) And what do you mean by waiting for parents? That should be the second priority as well. I would like to marry in Nepal itself. OFCOURSE with my mom and dad dancing away with me ;). Kaha baja bajayera ghoda ma nachdai janti haru sanga Saali haru side handai bihe garnu chadera yaha mandir ma court ma ani sano reception ma garne? If I could I would bring the entire KTM vally down with a BLAST. The reason being, I am gonna be DOWN for the rest of mah life. :) IndisGuise:)