sorry if you've encountered such a cold hearetd and ruthless person sujanks but my advice is guys take a few smiles and a good words as approval from the girls and later dare 2 propose,get turned down and name them cruel. it's hard 2 develop feelings towards friends. but those feelings if develop later on, form the strongest bond.there won't b any need for looking good or acting in a different way 2 please ur partner.but it's not always possible. love those who loves u, not those whom u love.