those men and women who say that they love and lie at the same time are scum of earth... they should suffer the rest of their lives... and they better know that karma comes back... temporary happiness by breaking someone will come back and the same thing will suffer them... if you want to cheat/be unfaithful... tell him/her.. that you are doing so and leave him/her or let him/her make the decision... just don't lie... cheat but don't lie... and don't hide the truth... that is the worst thing... cheating isn't.. lying is... if you are sexually unsatisfied or want to be satisfied because you are away, it think the other should know and may be assist in making a temporary separation... don't say.. "i love you honey, i miss you baby, i am faithful you sweetheart", and bang with someone... terrible... satanic complex... should even be expelled from the neverland... let them suffer in the plane of pain