People of Kashmir were given the choice during 1947 and when the Pakistani forces attacked them, they decided that they wanted to be a part of India so that they can derive benefits from the Indian army. I think that that is a decision enough.. I think that Jammu and Kashmir rightfully is a part of India and Pakistanis should have known better than try to conquer it by force. And about Nepal intervening.. would we want to make an enemy outside the nation when we have enough of them inside?