ममता You are right about that 'cool smile' thing that guys give staring at girls and also that girls want to dress showing off a bit. As far as speaking english with cool effect is concerned, I meant girls didn't have to do that while speaking with a fellow nepali. I also try to avoid my accent when I speak to a foreigner. Girls show off getting dressed better trying to look more beautiful and guys show themselves off trying to look the coolest and different one. I think it is universal, and it sounds romantic too. But the difference is, we take it too far and often there are fights in every parties. Girls should know that these 90% of the fights are because of them.