Indisguise, You remind me of a close friend who had similar belief and thinking like yourself and we all considered him a playboy. There is nothing wrong with that, if thats what you choose to be. One wound cannot be covered with another Once the heart is taken you cannot fill the void All you can do is grow bigger and stronger heart There is more in life than begging for mercy! Shiv (pardon me -- you have quite a lady fan fare going, that is what you are looking for, probably)