DC_girl, I don't know if it will be helpful to you and, in fact, I even don't know if it is a valid theory, however, I think a romantic relationship is a SUM of what happens in the following FOUR tracks and therefore all of these four tracks need to be examined in order to understand what's going on. The four tracks: 1. A's original "love" to B 2. B's original "love" to A 3. A's reciprocal "love" to B 4. B's reciprocal "love" to A ___