Don't confuse yourself by thinking such things. Things might suck now, but it will be better ahead. It always goes up and down. If you hit bottom, it just means you'll have an opportunity to rise so much higher. So, TALK to him about it and try new things out to add the spice in your love life....looks like you guys take each other as granted and thats why things are looking so normal...dont let that happen....spice it up and things will be wonderful...:) Good Luck