This thread is getting weird. I think what red really meant was when girls in Nepal are kept in their respecting homes with a lot of severity and strictness they are not reallt that close and free with their parents. They have a certain fear and they really dont get to do what they want when in Nepal. So when they come to the US they think that they have all the freedom in the world and do what they want. They do stuff that they had once dreamt of but were never allowed to do and some of those stuff are BAD. AND they cant tell their parents about it because of course they know that its BAD. You cant really blame you parents for that but it is true that if the parents had initiated a friendly and open relatin with their kids the result might have been a bit different. I dont know where the baby thing fits in but then well... I think that both Xena and Red are right in their own way.. just a misunderstanding in between!