okay, lemme make myself clear before i go to sleep! girls hide about living with a guy and having a baby because her parents are strict! and if her parents were open about what she has to face in life, and had let her experience (NOT FuKING AND HAVING A BABY OF COURSE) but other stuff, this type of situation would never arise! and "i didn't blame parents for having a baby" was as ...i didn't blame parents "strictness" for their daughters to have a baby!" if this is still not clear, then i can't do anything about this, you FINGURE out yourself!