maybe you don't understand! think about it if you can! I didn't say being strict is a crime! did i even say that? i don't think so! but human mind is they way it is!! you can't change it by arguement! someone tells you not to do something, and you have to do it. and then end result comes out from parents, how they're raised! and i did mention being mature means " knowing what is right and wrong!" did you even read completley?