Thanks you guys for suggestion but I have no idea what to do its getting worse. Well I told him to tell everything to her and get over it and he also knew she was gonna say no to him anyways. Unfortunately he wanted me to tell her everything and I said okay and I know that was stupid thing ever. And she was like you know I have bf so why r u telling me this and all? neways she said NO to him obviously but damn he is not accepting the fact. Her relation with her bf is not going smooth and I don?t think that?s the right guy for her but yet she is willing to compromise her life for him cuz he (her bf) has suffered a lot in his life so she doesn?t wanna break his bf?s heart. I know its getting kinda complicated. Back to my guy- friend and gurl- friend whenever I see them both together I always felt match made in heaven. They r so alike and so perfect for each other. She also told me that if she didn?t have boyfriend then she would definitely have said yes to him. He wants me to convince her that, that guy is too far away and her love is only sympathy for him and she is in self-denial. And she wants me to make him understand that she loves her bf and cares about him and doesn?t wanna hurt him? well again I am stuck in the middle. I think both of them are right in their own places. Both of em are my really good frenz they think I am genius and all so I can solve their prob but I am not and I cant. Both of them expect help from me and I don?t want to take anyone?s side and if I don?t help them they r gonna get mad at me???. well anywayssss guysssss help me out.. What shall I do? I feel bad about him he is such a tough guy now he is all shattered and told him there are many other girls but he won?t listen. I wish everything were back to normal. LLL