I don't really understand what to you mean by "something else"? If someone loves you or likes you than you should be greatful coz not all are so lucky. If you don't like it that tell him how you feel about him, he might understand. If "something else" is something physical than I feel sorry for those distort pouvert. Bottom line, if you think this guy is cool than go for it. Life is complicated, people look for relationship to make it simple.