Conclusion: To control sex is not unscientific. More you become liberal to sex more you get addicted to it. Disciplined sex is the best. You have sex only with your partner with whom you have lifelong committed relationship. This will bring happiness and harmony in your life. Happiness and pleasure are different; to get happiness you must leave or harness the pleasure. You are not losing anything if you are not having sex. Those, who belive you are a loser, are object of compassion. Have compassion on them. It is same as if a drunkard come to you at midnight and said " dude you are a loser because you don't drink". It is same as a drug adict come high to you and say " dude you are a loser, you are missing heavely pleasure" Don't make modernization as an excause of your weakness. There is nothing old and nothing new. Moral and immoral people exists all the time. There were majority of people at the time of Buddha who used to practice immorality. There were very few people who were moral. Since history talks only about moral people, don't generalize it. This is true for all the time. To live a life of morality is difficult, that's why there were/are always few people to observe morality. However, without moral life don't except happiness in life. Immoral life may give you a lot of pleasure, but not happiness. Without morality mind doesn't get calmed down, and no happiness come from the restless mind. So if you have to choose morality and immorality, chose morality, it will give you long time welfare. Virginity should not be a matter of pride; it should be a matter of responsibility. There will be no miracle if you have sex with a virgin, however, to remain virgin is self control, which is of course appreciable and an excellent job. One should change the way of thinking. One should not think that one should remain vergin, instead one should think that one shouldn't commit sexual misconduct. Never involve in sexual misconduct. If you have done, no regret, past has gone. Take it as a mistake and move forward with strong determination. If your spouse has committed sexual misconduct, don't make it psychological disease; forgive him/her, and move on for happy life. It is also a mistake liek any any other mistakes. However, if you see no harm on sexual misconduct, you are challinging many discoveries. You will be responsible to your own action. Be committed to your partner only, this will bring happiness in your family life. Never even think of the sexual misconduct, because every action get started from mind. Never let emotions to overpower you. Always fight against them and never lay down. Emotions increase if you give more importance to them. Don't treat your partner as a source of pleasure only. This is reality for many modern day couples, that's why they break up or divorce once they found they are no more pleasant to each other. Unconditional love is real love. It can never be limited for one. It is for one and all. Your success in relation will never depend on the hotness of your spouse. It will always depend on the coolness of your spouse. If you give importance to hotness, since the temperature is relative term :), one of you will be colder after some time, and still hot one will look for another hot partner. If your partner is cool he/she will keep you happy. You will always feel satisfied, which will complete your life. Remember when people start relationship they give importance to hotness, once they spend sometime in relationship they give importance to coolness. So be cool, look for cool, if you want successful relationship. Passionate love is selfish love. It is there till you remain the source of pleasure to you partner, otherwise gone. The love between to opposite sex is mostly passionate one, be aware of it : Everybody needs happiness. For that you have to cut off the passion. Slowly harness your passion and move for happiness. Since they are opposite, as much passion your will leave that much happiness you will get. Start living disciplined life, which is scientific. Nature always have boundaries, don't cross those boundaries. Mind always wants to do something which yields no result, we shoult realize this. Every mistake is done out of ignorence. Since we don't think of the outcome of our action seriously which is ignorence. Things which seems beneficial at the moment might be harmful for long run. Buddha discovered that people do mistakes because of the ignorence. While doing wrong thing they think they are doing right, that's why they do it. Modern philosopher accept that theory. So, be vigilent to your action, analize it, think of your action from different angle. If you find it wholesome, then do it. Abstain from SEXUAL Misconduct, Live a healthy life, happy life. The end.