friend dibya raj koiral, i dont know what exactly you expect people to say. but you are a big boy now and can probably think for yourself. i guess 29 is a ripe age at which to get married. since you have not had that kind of companionship, you will probably find fulfilment from a married life. based on what you have said, and based on some "educated extrapolations" my recommendation to you is to ask your parents to find someone back home. you should make a trip back home and find some alone time with your prospective candidates. try to get to know the person, and try to help them get to know you....then make a decision that is mutually agreeable.. .if you find a connection, go with your heart and your gut. don't over-analyze the situation, though... lemme know how it goes..he he...i will be thiking about this marriage thingy a few years down the line too.. good luck with your phd and have a happy married life..