Posted by: vishontar November 1, 2005
Is it good to remain virgin before marriage?
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Since our culture is founded on aformentioned values, we should have no wonder why sex is considered as taboo. What do I want to say? Some people give a lot of importance to virginity. They think virginity is something special. They proud of being virgin. Some people look for virgin spouse, they proud of having virgin spouse. From my point of view, it is not the virginity what is important, what really important is to abstain from sexual misconduct. (I will clear this point later). Sexual misconduct is wrong not only from spritual and religious point of view but from scientific point of view as well. It is like a drug, people easily get adicted to it. Why do we want to do drug? Why do we want to drink alcohol? Durg and alcohol give us pleasure that's why we want to do them. It is not the drug and the alcohol that the people like, it is the pleasure. People get adicted to pleasure and they want it again and again. That's why they do drug and they drink alcohol. Anything that gives us pleasure can make us adict. All the adictions have a common property that they seduce us and eventually ruin us. This is the reason why sex should be treated cautiously. Real cautiously. Why cautiously? How cautiously? Is sex a biological need? what is sexual misconduct? What is disciplined sex? Am I losing something since I haven't have sex? Can sex ever be like shaking hand? ..........Tomorrow........Final :) Contd...........
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