gwajyo, you are missing the main point here. the bone of contention is the fact that the paki wants to prosletyze a fellow nepali girl. if the muslate were OK with accepting her the way she is, it's no problem. the problem is that the paki cannot behave in the open-minded way that you espouse. a musalte needs to do certain things for a confirmed one-way ticked to heaven where 72 black eyed virgins will be eager awaiting his arrival. one is to make a trip to mecca. another is to prosletyze someone into islam. there are several others, which i am not 100% sure about. i don't think the quran lists strapping a bomb on your waist and walking into a bus full of innocent people as one of them, though. anwyay, you get the picture...