Gwajyo, Okay , maybe some ppl are speaking out of hatred, I don't have a say to that because i don't know what they are thinking when they are writing. I was commenting on the situation of the girl. What saddens me is how weak we are. yes, we can go to church, go to mosque but we don't have to convert to them. Nepali people are converting to anything , everything that comes along. Why can't we stick to our values and pride. that does not necessarly mean being extermist. We can be open minded, love everyone, and politely but firmly stick to our values. We don't have to take bad part of the values. We should be able to use our judgement. Education and travel comes to play on that. However, converting is a big deal. I don't think marrying a muslim is a big deal , but converting to get married is a big deal. My only concern on this story is why does she has to change. Why can't she be a hindu and get married, or why can't he change? cuz we're weak? or we're to much of a open minded? You lebeled Nepali as extermist. now thats a serious word. I would think many times before using that word to defend pakis. but it's your judgement, although i don't agree with it, i respect your values or one love and all that goodies..