My personal experience ...most pakis I've seen are usually liers, fraudulent etc., despite their first impression. About frauds, I'm a victim of it, that too because I had a very good Paki friend:-(... finally the cop got him, took him to court etc.. About your would-be-groom, check his credit history and have him (and you too for the sake of reciprocality) test for HIV... not a usual suggestion, but both are worth every penny of it each... If I'm the only one suggesting it to you, you will be a debtor to me for your whole life. In the end, I wish you good luck. Just another bitter suggestion.. don't just count on straight A