And I just read other messages after I posted my messages, recurring theme Aaliyah ji. They're all warning you on the same isue, his desire for you to convert your religion. I have a lot of respect for Nepalese women. I have been thinkin abt starting a fundraiser for those trapped in the brothels of Bombay. I'm not saying you're going to Bombay, but you may have to endure something similar, hatred from your man's family, hatred from your man himself (if you dont decide to convert), AND tears from your parents. Youll never be allowed to celebreate Dashain tihaar and swing on the ping. If you're non veg, youll have to endure the halaal of an animal.NO SINDOOR or TIKA, or even rakhi and bhai tika. Lots of things that you wont be able to digest(I AM NOT IMPLYING THAT THESE THINGS ARE BAD IN ISLAM. THATS THEIR CULTURE, I RESPECT IT. BUT CAN YOU HANDLE IT????) If you can bear ALL that, well you're probably super human lady!!! You've already stuck yourself by coming under the pressure of having to look for a partner and not trusting your parents decision. One can only know their true partner AFTER marriage, so arrange ho ya love, doesnt matter.Besides you have written that you were attracted to his Greel looks whatever. It seems that the first thing you were lookin for was looks which you didnt find in any other guys you dated. And so what if the guy's an A student? Charles Shwab was a C student. Gandhi sucked. Hulas Golcha, Nepalese entrepreneur(Rice producer), never went to school, etc etc. Just an A kid wont make you happy (for life). Whats different is the shame in overcoming the barrier of having sex for the first time with your hubby. Think abt it. Namaste