Why is gay marriage such a big deal. I mean why force ppl to NOT do something they want to do. Do you think that making a law that doesnt allow people to be spouses will keep them from doing what they wanna do? If there is a law that says u cant marry anymore... will you stop dating and all that shiz? NO.. so y even bother and think about all these things in the first place. WHy force people to be unhappy. If being gay makes them happy then let it be. No one can change the fact. I had a gay fren and he was a really cool person. I din seee anything wrong with him. Its just prejudice and nothing else.. besides its their life why interfere with it?