hi indiguise, nice to hear from you! you have so good memory!! being dumped and to dump!! dumped are blessed, i think u r right, my first girlfriend asked for big apoloqy with all those tears, she said it hurts that she dumped me, she adds she would have felt better if get dumped, and still we are good friends now.i felt happy i get dumped at that time. and regarding therapy, it worked very well, planning going to newzealand soon with my new one for holidays, infact so easy to forget i know now, just feel that i should have lambasted that bitch, and dressed down her wellllll!!! thank you,again!