lute kukur u soound totally out of the topic....i dont think this thread started to get such answer rather than to get writin which would change the sexual view that we have now.....having sex b4 marriage isnt just bad unless u do it safe and be aware of social impacts...i mean to say.....u do it but let it be with someone who is faithful to u and let it be very respectful.....well in the society like we grew in.....sex is always subject of secrecy......but dat doesnt mean dat u shouldnt have sex b4 marriage....what if a guy or gil wanna get married after 30 ...or sometimes even 40....?...so guys n galls dont wait ..get it done on time ...