Hey Kaly4nia: I am glad that you brought this issue on Sajha. At the beginning, people are just allured by the charm of knowing different culture, tradition, values and interests. Obviously, opposite attracts. But on the long run, with the constant stress of disimilarities, misunderstanding, mininterpretation and coping with two diverse race,culture and tradition, it is too overwhelming to cope with the daily routine tasks. On top of it, the relationship is a very complex matter to handle. And who want to go through so much, you already have so much complexities in life, right???? In sum, I don't mind, but seeing several unforseen events (which I have a control over on the present situation) associated with vast racial or cultural gap, makes me think twice, thrice and .... HD