Thank you all for your valuable suggestion. Here what I'll do next: 1. When someone says bhote to any mangolian, I'll request him not to say so and explain him that, that hurts me. 2. If still continue, I'll try to avoid him. 3. If still continue, I'll take this issue to Nepali Samaj that we have in our university. 4. If still not solved, I'll post in sajha for further suggestion. I don't mean to harm anyone or any group. Sorry if I did anything wrong. I had very good (brahmin/chetri) friend during my school and college age. Truely speeking, whatever I'm now is due to those friends, who guided me, helped me alot. Again, thank you for your suggestions. Pagli Gurung, CA