USA nepali dude, it seems u are too naive and innocent and havent got a grip about the harsh realities of life. Its very normal for girls to go on a week-long trip to manakamana and chitwan with their bf. If she was claiming that she had to attend someone at the hospital, you may want to rethink about that. You have met a few girls on the net and think that you are in love. No offence dude, but how old are you? Maybe she has emailed you few pics of her, rite? Few nice looking pics and that was good enough to blow you over and you fell for it. Now let me tell you the harsh reality of life. Though I am not married, I have seen others facing problem with this. A guy/gal may be successful with working visa in the usa, earning and saving thousands of dollars a month. But, he may not be that good in the looks department. Then what happens is he starts looking for very beautiful girl from Nepal coz he cant find one in USA. The good looking chick thikns: wow, this is my best opportunity to go and live in teh land of opportunity. Even though she may not like the guys's looks, she defnitnitley likes his money and ability to sponsor a visa for her. She marries and goes to the US and will start dating someone else soon coz the love and compatibility was never there. She just faked it. After all, how much can u know about others thruugh the internet? Thats what I have to say whether you like it or not.