Hmm... this is really really potential sucidial situation if u don't act now (ain't ty ing to be rude). let me get to the st pt. Here's the scenario, she is 19, u'r 27. So definitely u'r more stable than she is in terms of experience, life, money ev ting. the way u look towards life is definitely makes more reasonable than hers. But u should try to get molded to her ways of thinking like act'g Kool, smoking, drinking, partying with her, get to know her. Don't ever let her feel that u'r senior than her. Let er feel comfortable with u so she knows u'r kinda of her personality that she?s looking for even though its hard to do it espsialy in ur age where responsibility knocks ur brain evry time. Try to get molded in er lifestyle. Give ur best to give er emotional touch espsialy in er ag its not that hard. Try to do sm'ting that shows u care of her like giving her carride (especially that works if u lib in midwest),gving b'day gift, n just be ready 24/7 to help er out with assignments, suggestions, or any favor she wants from u. Just be kool. Dn't be in hurry. Allow urself time from 4-6months. She'll know that u had feeling for her. She won't reject u 'cause during teenage they are full of emotions. It wont be hard for u to win her heart. C u'r not in that bad situation either. What if she is 23-25, it can be worst case scenario 'cause by then she won't need much help from u just 'cause she would be independent, knows everything of life, can do evth?g by herself. She won't need u to help her. She might have her own pespective which mightn't click with urs. She might be less emotional. There can be problems( unless u'r Tom cruise or Brad prit 'at she'll fall upon u anway). So just go ahead n work on it. PYASA KUWA KE PASS JATA HE KUWA PYASA KE PASS NAI ATA. Pretend to be laid back n she'll be urs. Good luck!!