hey ktmeye, that thing about nepalese girls converting to islam is crazy shit, man. if a muslate really loved the girl, why can't he accept the fact that she is free to have her own beliefs and values. i don't trust some of these musaltes (some are really nice, though) when they ask their wives to put on these burkhas which are nothing more than bee-keeper suits. and what's wrong with these nep girls who pretty much sign a contract to put on these bee-keeper suits for their whole lives just cos some muslate said a few good things to them? that just ain't right. hey mercury and mainhoona, pyar karna to darna kya!!! girls tend to be more mature than guys of the same age group. that's why girls like older guys, who tend to be more sensible, understanding and caring. some nepalese guys who are young tend to be very immature and have a propensity to act selfish and stupid. i happen to be an exception (of course). just kidding....anyway, this may explain why even some goold ol' fashioned nepalese girls have to seek out musaltes. i think this is a mistake cos muslates *generally* dun respect their women. no explanation required here..but once you've put on the beekeeper suit, it's too late. so given that you two can chit chat for hours means that you are on the same wavelenght...so go for it man....so what if she called you dai? would you have preferred her calling you mercury ji or mainhoona ji instead? c'mon good well-brought up nepalese girls are taught to call older guys dai...and good luck to you both...may the force be with you.