Quit givin ya self a hard time and spit out ya feeling infront of that girl and see how she feels about it. More ya push it, more you suffer. Age shouldn't be a problem as long as you 2 can get along. At da same time you said she calls ya Dai. She might bring that stuf up so be prepared what ya gonna say if she does. damn I'm talkin like a luv-doc now!! ~peace~