Virginketi, Of course it is not only good but excellent to be virgin before marriage. However, you should understand well what virginity is for. I always stand for doing things out of wisdom insdead of doing arbitrarily or just out of blind belief. My postings are always tiresomely long, they are for those who have quest. I recommend you to read it if you are desperate. Sex is a sensual pleasure comes from the touch of the sensative parts of the body, just like the pleasure you get from seeing something beautiful, listening to somethings pleasent, eating something delicious, smelling something sweet. These all are called contact pleasures. Pleasures come from the contact of eye-scene, nose-smell, ear-sound, toung-flavor, body-touch. These five sense organs when touch their respective pleasent objects, they give you pleasent feeling. Mind is very strange sixth sensual organ, which is involved in all of these five, and it can do something extra too, that is, it can recall all five contacts and generate same type of feelings. Biologically, some biochemical reaction takes place inside your body due to the contacts and you like the product of the reaction. I believe there are some biologists in Sajha, they can tell you about the bio-chemical reaction and the product of it. The important point is you like the pleasent feeling due to the contact of sense organs to their respective objects. You long for the pleasure and you are always in hunt for them. Do some self examination. Think of these questions. Why do you want to see beautiful places or people? Whay do you want to listen to nice song? Why do you go to your favorite restaurent? Why do you want to use perfume? Why do you want to put on warm cloths in winter? Why do you want to remember the wonderful day you have with someone? The answer of all of these is: FOR PLEASURE. Contd......