Pats or for that matter anyone else. Why the heck do you care what she chooses to dress as? She's not your mother or your sister or your wife for you to be judgemental on what she wears or what she does. " If you don't want people to comment on your attire, you should have been smart enought to know not to dress like you did at the event." How the hell did you come to understand that she's bothered by the comments? If you have a problem with being fashionable go back to stone age and take a peek up the banana leaf of your great great forefathers.