Rythm, In response to your first post. . . I am glad it brings you smiles. Well, it was not exactly what happened, but I have been thru that exact scenario a few times earlier on in my juvenileness. What can I say about hope? It is probably another emotional state that goes hand in hand with love----------> only to destroy us. But, "hope floats." That is what they say, and I have no reason not to concur with them. ;) Don't you really think there is some link between the natural disaster being named feminine and the females themselves? I absolutely believe there is. Misunderstanding or too much understanding, or just about perfect; nothing works. For second. . . Are you even serious? Like I said, it just appears that we chase your kind. If you show "lollies" to an innocent kid, what is he got to do? Act insane and refuse? Duh! Hehe ;) As stated earlier, I solemnly pledge to perfectly understand that I've to devote myself in submission; a man can only fight with his enemies, not against perceived friends. Does it change us? I can not speak for others but I can tell you this much, the enlightenment I found from your kind is, the innocent they appear, more devastating their rage are. I mean, if we think that she is venom-less viper, calm, simple, serene, loving and all, and they appear overwhelmingly perfect, and what are we supposed to do? We are doomed. For in a jiffy - they become devastating "KALI" from beautiful and loving "PARBATI". Maybe I should go back to my Shiva ji state which I threw and did "ganga snan." Hehehe :p And the dramas that they are master at. . ..if I start stating each one of them, I might as well write a book. Heaven strike me if I am exaggerating; let alone lying. Rather, strictly speaking on personal familiarity, there are some "kind" ones who lay the ground rule before hand. People might disagree, but I hold my hand on my heart and swear I have nothing but respect for them. Atleast they are not chameleon-esque. - IndisGuise:)