Here is my theory - You might smell bad. You might have a "wrong" look. You dress up really badly. You don't know how to talk. You might be plain unlucky. You are not looking at the right place. You are wearing too many colorful clothings. Remeber what works for a 'Bhale' might not work for men. You are trying to mount a woman while she is shopping, chatting with friends, knitting. Remeber it might work for rabbits but not for men. Tell me which one fits you. Maybe I will have a remedy too. Or just read Ashu's link .