Dalli Resham, you and your old hindi movie dialogues, keep it with yourself. Purity of sex? what's that? Suppose, I am in a college dorm, in my early 20's, drunk and stoned, just back from the club, with a girl, of course, and I start thinking about purity of sex? Probably the way I live is bit different than the way u live your life. Dating and sex go hand in hand dude. You are dating a girl, and one night, you take her to the bed and the moment you are ready to enter her, you and your conscience wake up? Now that sounds bit dramatic to me, and you sound like a little liar. At least I am being honest, I go to the club to get drunk, to pick up chicks, if I am successful, I'll bring her home or take her to the motel and make love with her. Next morning, If the feeling is mutual, i'd think about the future, spend more time with her and see how things go with her, otherwise, I simply say "thank u" and move on. Simple. No strings attached till I want it that way. I don't go to club, wearing a jacket of morality, just to drink and dance on a floor with my other friends. Come on, give me a break here. And why do those girls go to the club? So that they could drink pina colada and match steps with their girlfriends? They also have desires, don't they? Why would I have to marry the girl I sleep with? Why do the girl who slept with me has to marry me? It doesn't make sense, I guess we believe in the freedom of choice here. Lets look at this thing with totally different perspective. Imagine a girl, she is in her mid 20's, she doesn't have a man in her life, but like everyone, she is also born with desire. She goes out, finds a nice guy on a dancefloor. She dances with him and eventually he takes her home. They make love. Next day, morning, he tries to control her. She doesn't like it. She leaves her. Simple. Oh Dalli (or should i call you Reshham), I respect myself. Don't worry about it. My conscience is clear. I don't expect to find virgin wife, neither I believe the virgin will be a perfect wife for me.