mg, thank you for sharing this story with so many people. it takes a lot of courage to open up and allow yourself to be vulnerable. i wasn't terribly familiar with sajha when you originally posted this last summer, so i am grateful to saajan for bringing it back. and it is quite clear to see how much you have grown and matured, both as an individual and as a writer, simply by reading your posting from yesterday. i don't write on sajha as often as i used to, but i still visit quite regularly and i am always wondering where your poems are....?! many of your poems that i have been fortunate enough to read have really moved me and i thank you for that! ajhai pani lekhnus hai!