by the way guys..my views.. dudes from nepal sucks as much as dudes out here..The other day..this so called 'arranged" fiance said hey I am so and so If you'll give me your car keys and house keys, I can promise you happiness otherwise I am not sure whether I like you....Cheapster!!! and for the other one..he ripped me off for a lunch date...had 7 bucks in his pocket..and said he needs that for the taxi home..jeeeeeeeez...enuf!!! But that is reality..both guys and girls..instead of falling in love and marrying ..they talk on the line.."mere pas bangla hey gaddi hey..greencard hey, degree hey..tumharey pass dene ke liya kya hey"....IT's more like buying/selling of bheda bakhra in Toondikhel...what a shame!!! Forget about the premarital sex and dates..that is not even the issue.. and what is the guarantee that the girl/guy you marry from Nepal is any better than ppl out here..what a stupid hypothesis.... That leaves us two choices A. Just close your eyes and marry the person your parents wants B. Find the right person YOurself..place has nothing to do..just keep looking!