bullish, now explain it to me what our culture do not allow us to do back home? what makes u think that girls back home are as "decent" as u think? u said u r not conservative but ur own statement contradicts u!! "pls read ur post again and tell me if i lied." lets c, i. does our culture allows men to have premarital sex? [ culturally no. but its a male dominant society so its okey.. dbl standards] ii. hindu culture wants women to be faithful to their husbands"patibrata" and they as well do have this "patnibratha" . but since nepalese is a male dominant they treat women differnetly [ again dbl standard] iii. men can have multiple wives and female cannot. [ culturallty its okey. religion does not bar it. eg. panchali. but male dominant society like nepal... its not acceptable again dbl standard] iv. men can marry next day after being a widower; female cannot. [ culturally there was no restriction but socially male dominant society .. dbl standards] if MEN HAVE SEX WITH MORE THAN ONE THEN HE IS CALLED "MARD KO CHORA" if FEMALE DOES THE SAME THEN SHE IS "SLUT" so it is DBL STANDARD, that we have been fed into.. . NOTHING TO DO WITH CULTURE AND RELIGION. ==================================================== again my INSOMNIAC THOUTS. once again, what do i know???