[ i am sure there are some exceptions here but i am speaking in general term so pls. pls.. do not start hurling stuffs at me ] south, this is what i feel. guys(nepalese) have this big ego. so they cannot have this cordial relationship with girls(nepalese) in US. {mostly}. so, they go back for {2 weeks} and get married and come back. Now, its an arranged, plus they are bringing a new person into a different environment. they practically own them. [ u all know what i mean. now please do not take it like a material sense....]. because of this ego guys usually have this so called guilt. [ for various reasons.. ] so they seem to high light this fact that they are obedient sons who went back to Nepal to get married [fulfiling an obligation]. nepalese grls.. do go back for marriage. usually, its arranged [ either by themselves or parents]. (o: . just like guys... and since they do not have guilts or they are very good at hiding/overcoming them they seem to go along with life. ==================================================== just my thouts.. when i am insomniac... but as always what do i know? (o: